Forgiveness

Forgiveness make our heart feel peace. Yeah! So, what are tips, so we can give forgivenesss?

1. What is forgiveness?

We accept the apologize of our friends. It’s hard, hmm... i think according the condition, benefit and loss. Before we measure the benefit and loss, we must know too what we have, so we know what we loss. And forgiveness, we accept the next condition after action which cause by ourselves or them. Forgiveness means that there is no hurt of heart after that “war”. There is no revenge. Don’t tell people’s bad attitude.

2. How to forgive?

Say to ourselves ,”I don’t hate them”. If we feel harmed, keep forgive! Because if we keep hate them, we will be more harmed. Do variation of activities in our life, so we can think about other. If there is nothing to think or if there is no hope, it’s easy to us to think about our enemy. Don’t let enemy bother our thinking! Be fresh! If we know ourselves, our soul, our “golden”, we will know the meaning of benefit and be harmed.

We were born in this world without anything. If we think that we have golden, beautiful dress, home and other, actualy all of those, not ours. Give thanks to God. All, what we have are from God, because grace of God. “All i have are grace of God’.

3. What are benefits of forgiveness?

Peace. The real peace. Abhorrence is bad for our heart. Give forgiveness. You’re the winner of heart. You can make loss heart with abhorrence. Say thanks to God! We never have anything at before, so we never be harmed. Peace heart will be yours if there is forgiveness from heart.

4. How to start forgiveness?
Steps :

- say thanks to God, pray and tell your problem. Ask God to give us heart which want to give forgiveness

- Change our point of view! If we hate someone, it means we only have little understanding of condition.

- We are “rich people”, rich people are who have big heart to give forgiveness and have peace in heart.

- Never tell bad attitude of them, who you ever hate. Keep say the good things!

- take lesson of life from your experience!

You’re a rich man who has big heart to give forgiveness. You never be harmed because actually you were born without anything. Ask God to give you heart to forgive! Peace is more than golden. Rich people have many goldens which can’t be bought by money. The real rich people have the real peace. To buy it, need heart to work. What’s kind of work? Work for forgiveness. It’s hard. Do hardwork, yeah forgiveness!

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