How we can accept our life? (Session1)

Don’t compare ourself with other, but compare ouself

It’s more easier to accept our life if we’re in up, being rich daughters or sons, have popularity. Yes, or if we’re actress/actors. Yeah, popularity ones. But, we’re not part them, the perfection life.

If we count our days, actually we kept smiling about our life. But, we forget why, because we didn’t plan for smiling because of our life which we lived in. We imagined that we will smile and be happy if we got perfection life. But, we smile not only because our imagination, but because life makes you smile.  

Have you ever heard that “grass of neighbour are more green than our grass?” But, we don’t know about their grass or their effort for making up their grass. We just pass their homes and look their grass are more green. We just compare in one way in our head without looking their grass more closer or asked them about their grass more. W

Everyone are same. Same. And same. All of us were born with nothing. We came to this world without money on hands, without gown, without clothes, without key of car. Nothing.

Day after day, we were being more bigger not only body, but mind. That was very good when we live with hope from childhood. Really good, pretty. The problem is : we keep in hope, hope if it be done in our life and force how it can be and keep in forcing life for getting what we want and start to forget who we are at first. It’s nice when we effort to get our dreams. The problem is : we forget who we’re at first.

There is no one who have everything in this world. But, there are people who have everything which they need in this world. If we put our happiness in golden, we will run for golden. If we put our happiness in popularity, we will run for popularity. If we put our happiness in this moment, people who with us, we don’t need run, because we with them and at that moment. Don’t forget who we’re at first. For what? So, if we fail, we remember who we’re at first. We came without anything, just cry. So, that’s why we cry if we fail, because at first when we came to this world we only know crying. And then we try and try again.

Don’t compare ourself with others. Let’s compare ourself with our past. I believe that everyone have something from their past. And, being better person now hopefully.

There is no one who have and get everything in one time. To get one, they must release or leave others. Maybe not at that time, but they will do it.

Our parents work for eight hours. Do they get money? Yes. Do they get friends? Yes? Do they get smile? Yes. But, they leave us for eight hours. Someone who has popularity doesn’t mean has deep relation with people. They have chance to be lonely too. Someone who don’t have popularity doesn’t mean she/he is the sadness one, maybe they have best friends. But, so poor if we don’t have anyone. Do you know? There is friend in our life keep wit us, although all people leave us. Yes, our God still with us, being our friend.

So, don’t complain about this life. Accept life. Love your day. Lesson for this day is don’t compare ourself with other, but compare ourself with our past. Have we been better than before?   

Love your days.


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